THE SHORT ANSWER
Start by securing important documents and valuables, then decide with family what to keep, sell, donate, and discard. Estate sale companies, online auctions, and buyout services can sell what's left. If the house will be sold to pay for care, talk to an elder law attorney first when Medicaid may be needed, because the sale proceeds count as an asset.
A move to assisted living or a nursing home usually leaves a house behind — often one full of forty or fifty years of life. Emptying it is part logistics, part grief. These pages help with both.
Start here
- Before you touch anything
- Emptying a parent's house: where to start
- Keep, family, sell, donate, discard
- Estate sale vs. online auction vs. buyout
- Selling a parent's house while they're in care
The first three things to do
- Find the paperwork — wills, deeds, insurance policies, bank and tax records.
- Secure valuables — jewelry, cash, firearms, and anything irreplaceable.
- Call the homeowner's insurance company — many policies change once a house is vacant.
Keep exploring
- Using the House to Pay for Assisted Living
- What Happens to the House When a Parent Needs Medicaid in New York?
A clearer plan starts here.
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